*Understanding-Goal Directed Cognitive Approach :GDCA*
Dear Parents Make a list of all things u feel will be impossible in your kid and work towards it.
If you believe nothing is impossible, list things or issues your kid has difficulty in and list what all you did for your kid for same issue for last 3 months.
List what all you made possible. if you can list all changes you brought in last 3 months, discuss with expert about next step and how rapidly it can be achieved.
If you are stuck at a step for more than 3 months, we are losing time and raise an alarm.
*Accept autism, don't accept disability, work towards enabling same*.
Hard talk on autism for autism parents
Understand and re understand the issue differently and work towards it.
Its true that you know best for your kid, but *its equally true that u don't know what is best for others kids*
Parenting an autism kid since ages, doesn't make you an expert for others kids unless you get through details of thousands of cases.
So unless you are expert *don't start teaching other parents,* you may be giving some information halfway which is true only for your kid. work on your kids not others'.
It's not a routine parenting issue in autism.
*Dont give up your desire to learn and do something new every day.*
its true that home BASED therapy is needed, but *don't make your house a therapy center with various toys and activities.*
Home therapy in true sense will mean practicing tricks with home based day to day objects and acts.
if you feel you have learnt all tricks of OT etc , and you can teach OT to any kid with autism or take care of your autism kid for years, *you are wrong*; it just means that you dont know the next step.
Sometimes it's good to accept we are wrong, then only we can *see the ray of hope.*
When we work with medicines and therapy *we develop connections and cross connections to processing centers;* which shows extended level of communications in the form of development in various *domains of understanding* including knowledge, nonverbal communication, behavior, emotions, socialization, interactive games and talking and writing skills apart from physical things. **
*Leaving things half way will develop connections half way and loose connections always die.* ** Often with a spark.
*Development is decided by connections, speed is decided by myelination.*
At least keep a *minimum goal of readiness for primary school* admission over 2 year phase.
Then divide them into steps.
*Later the age of intervention or medicines harder will be recovery or development of milestones.*
Work towards reducing severity of level, A child who can take main stream schooling for primary usually is *independent* and can be educated and trained to take care of family responsibly , when he or she grows up.
*Remember every one has limits.. even God too does.. we all are attempting to look beyond the perceived limit and find a higher achievable limit, in the best interest of the child, when we walk towards horizon attempting to touch the limit, the limit too moves ahead.
*giving us hopes to improve further every month Dr Kondekar #MakingSense
I want all parents to understand when we are looking for improvements, what all changes we may look for.
A keen parent would like to note down minor details about every change on weekly basis rather than saying sir no improvement.
Other parents may have similar ideas but if u don't note down In details, it's not easy to compare the improvement across time line.
See the monitoring chart available at www.neuropediatrician.com for getting a serious idea to see objective change.
The improvements can be minor when we expect changes every week , it's always better to note down.
*Try to list changes as per gains since last visit and goals till next visit* Also you have headings activities - living, household,, skills and gross /fine motor, Communication, Interaction, Academics Langauge concepts, Pre match concepts Story concept, Math concept Abstract concepts etc.
Medicines : Nutrients, most of them are raw material used for building block for forming bridges in brain... its not just repairing wires or filling the potholes on the raods of brain with raw material, but its like building more roads, new connections, new bridges, remoulding brain to re learn, improving internal connectivity and data trafficing and data processing brain, and improving cognition so that the sensory overload doesnot result in sensory and behavioural issues. These combinations will reduce or change every month after every weekly titration across whatsapp. After first positive response we follow gradual reduction in some medicines...systematically. Half hearted efforts will give incomplete response, more so in a situation where world say nothing can be done except exercises. Exercises only effect the input but has no major role in processing connections inside the brain. Changing environment alone is not a solution here, but we do need to change the processing speed of CPU of brain. Dr Kondekar
GF DIET TOXINS CHELATION AND STEM CELLS ARE WASTE OF TIME AND RESOURCES IN AUTISM AT PRESENT.